Ashley and Jason and Karli Tobert

My Baby Girl

2010-06-21T08:11:00.003-06:00

well alot has happened since i've been on here last...its been a year since i've been on this and i've had numerous people asking me to get back on here so i'll try it out for awhile and see how much i use it. ok so i got married May 29,2009 and about 2 months later jason and i found out we where having a baby. we were sooo excited! when i was 22 weeks we found out we where having a girl and i instantly knew what i was going to name her. KARLI JO TOBERT. she is named after my late sister Khali (Kallie) Jo Mitton. My pregnancy went well after the first 3 months i was super sick. but after that i was great except for the heartburn. i'd have to say that was the worse thing. Karli was born March 5 a week before my due date. i went in for my final checkup on the 4th and ended up getting admitted due to preclampsia. i was on everything imaginable and miserable. they induced me around 1pm and i instantly started having contractions they weren't too bad and really far apart i was ok throughout the day but about midnight they started hurting a ton so i got my epideral and then something went wrong and mine and Karli's heart rate dropped drastically and so all of a sudden there where a ton of nurses in there standing me up and gave me a shot to slow down my contractions. turns out i brought it on myself by getting too nervous or something like that and it about made me go into labor. so then the doc just broke my water and said that if i didn't have her by 10 am the next morning on my own then i was to have a c-section. so by 10 the next morning no baby. so they did an emergency c-section and Karli was born at 10:32 am March 5, 2010. she was 5pounds 10 ounces and 19 inches. she is the best thing every and such a great baby. Today she is 3months and 16 days old. she is about 10 pounds by now i'm guessing..her 4 month appointment is coming up soon. well that is all for now but here are some pictures of the big day. i will get some more pictures up soon of her now. she has changed a lot!

GETTING MARRIED!!!

2009-01-14T22:18:00.003-07:00

Ok so i haven't writting in over a month because i've been crazy busy...Alot has happened i started dating someone his name is Jason Tobert and he is completely amazing and the most perfect guy ever! i'm so in love with him and we have decided that we can't live without each other and have decided to get married late spring...we are super excited about it and so is our families...I AM SO IN LOVE!!!! it feels sooo good to have someone that cares about you and you truly believe they are the one you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with. A year ago i started to believe that i would never get married but i guess that i was wrong because i have found that special someone. I don't know what else to say except i'm extremely happy and can't wait to build a new life and home with Jason. I look forward to our future together and all the new adventures that come with being married to the man of my dreams.

Been Awhile

2008-12-03T17:21:00.003-07:00

Hey everyone! So sorry i haven't written in awhile its been crazy lately...Work is going great. i was thinking of moving to St. George for school but it will be awhile before i go. I'm making a lot of changes in my life and i'm sticking around here for a bit longer...Ogden is starting to grow on me a little...and i've made so many great people that have threatened me with kidnapping if i tried to leave :) well here are a couple new pictures that my boss took of me while trying on new stuff...

i love love love these pictures...

Hello All

2008-11-12T17:22:00.002-07:00

So I got this email from a friend the other day that had this website on it and so of course i had to click on it... it was sooooo good...so i thought i would share it... so here ya goes!
www.findingjoymovie.com

Also i just wanted to let everyone know that i'm doing great really....life is getting better and work is getting better too...not there was ever a problem with work...except for the hours but i have been getting more and i also got a raise...yay me! lol...I'm actually glad i decided to stay in Ogden longer...i've made so many great friends in my ward we are all so close its like a family..everyone is so nice...kind of reminds me of my old ward in Boise...I LOVE YOU GUYS!! lol...well thats all i have to say for now...hope all is well...until next time..

Halloween 08

2008-11-03T17:48:00.003-07:00

Alright so for Halloween I dressed up as a witch and also a fairy...I don't have pictures of me with the wings on yet but here are some with the witch hat...Enjoy...Also thank you to Corey for telling me how to post my pictures...

Staying

2008-10-30T14:13:00.002-06:00

Alright so as most of you know I decided to stay in Ogden a bit longer. I found out that I can't live on base with my brother which that was a possibility so I had a plan B just in case. So it was either still move home or stay here. So I decided to stay here. Which I think was a good choice. I'm looking into enrolling for spring at Weber State. I'm a little nervous because I haven't done the whole University thing. I've gone to professional school and thats one on one stuff in the same classroom everyday. But I think everything will be alright.

2008-10-26T14:13:00.002-06:00

So at church today during Relief Society the lesson was on overcoming trials in our life and knowing that heavenly father is always there for us no matter what. She read the testimony of a friend who's mother passed away a little over a year ago. She talked about how when her mother passed she thought he world was over and there was no way she would ever be happy and understand how she would get by without her mother. She said she turned more towards the teachings of the church and gained a stronger testimony.
At the end of the lesson the the teacher played a song sang by Hilary Weeks. I cried when I heard it and it hit me in all the right places. So here is the lyrics to the song. I hope you all like it if you haven't already heard it..here is a video that has the song.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkRo42AbOfQ

Hilary Weeks "He'll Carry You"
He knows your heart
He knows your pain
He knows the strength it took just to simply breathe today
He sees the tears that you cry
He knows your soul is aching to know why
He hears your prayers each humble word
When you said you couldn't face another day he understood
He knows the path that you will find
Though you felt alone he's never left your side

Chorus:
He knew there'd be moments when no earthly words
Could take away your sorrow And no Human eyes could see
what your going through
When you've taken your last step and done all that you can do
He will lift your heavy load and carry you

He'll bring you peace and leave you hope
And in the darkest night he'll comfort you
Until you know the sun will rise and each new day
You will have the strength to live again

Chorus:
And when there are moments when no earthly words
can take away your sorrow
And no Human eyes could see what you're going through
When you've taken your last step and done all that you can do
He will Lift your heavy load and carry you

He hears you when you're crying in the night
He hears you when you soul longs to find
Till the morning will come
And the light of the dawn reassures

Chorus:
That in the moments when no earthly words
can take away your sorrow
And no human eyes could see what you're going through
When you've taken your last step and done all that you can do
He will lift your heavy load and carry you.

To My Friends....

2008-10-23T15:23:00.000-06:00

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a nee d you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or whether you are a lifetime.

Moving and Life

2008-10-22T13:46:00.000-06:00

As most of you know already I have decided to move again. I know I move alot. :) Its just me I don't think I can stay in one place too long. So for now i'm moving home with my parents. Which is in Oakley, Idaho. Most of you look down on people that live with the parents but this is something I need to do in order to get back on track with my life. Sometimes you just can't do things without your parents help. I don't expect them to do everything for my happiness but it will sure help. I'm glad I can go to them when I need it. So in order to do that my family and I and Heavenly Father strongly believe that I should be home. I'm also looking into moving to New Mexico to live with my brother and his family. But that is up in the air right now. There are things that need to be done in order for that to happen. It will happen if its supposed to. I'm not worried anymore about what my future holds I took to much time trying to plan things instead of just letting things happen and I felt failed when my plans didn't happen. So i'm changing things and hope it helps. So wish me luck on my adventure in finding myself. I'll keep you updated as much as I can.

Starting Something New

2008-10-21T15:14:00.000-06:00

Alright so I thought maybe to help me with my millions of thoughts that I would start writting things down..well I guess actually typing. I hope it helps because I have a ton of things that bother me day to day and if I can get them out in the open so to speak then maybe it will help. I've been going through a lot lately in my life that everything I do from now on will be a little different. I want to start something new and this is the best way I know how.